What is Divorce Coaching?
A Divorce Coach serves a personal mentor throughout the process,
and assists clients in separating the emotional from the business.
The focus is on the present situation (the divorce) and learning
how to approach and manage the challenges and decisions that
divorce presents. Coaching offers structure and holds clients
responsible for assuming a pro-active role. A Coach may recommend
material for clients to read, work on, or refer to for future use.
Benefits of Divorce Coaching
Divorce is a life altering change. Having an awareness
of the factors necessary for change and the various stages of change
makes it easier for clients to remain calm and patient. Clients
can benefit by working with a Coach in setting realistic expectations
for the process and receiving education about the options available
for divorce. Being informed and prepared helps clients make important
decisions with confidence. Guiding clients in clarifying their thoughts, needs,
and concerns, in order to communicate more effectively, is another important
function of the Coach. Clear, purposeful and rational communication helps to
ease tension and foster understanding between spouses, as well as parents and
children. Additionally, clearly and precisely conveying key facts and asking
pertinent questions aids a client in choosing and communicating effectively with
his or her attorney. It is important to proceed through the divorce process in
manageable steps; thus, the Divorce Coach will help clients to prioritize the
tasks that need to be completed during the divorce. |